Love is....
I sat and watched my ex in-laws yesterday who have been married to one another for 61 years. Sometimes you look at a couple who have been married that long and you are blessed by the love that has endured for so many years. You wonder how they could of stay married to the same person for so long, through all the ups and downs and trials of life and still love each other. Instead, what I witness when I watch them interact is an inability to have a conversation without spewing years of unmet expectations and disappointments onto each other. A couple who has the inability to share a simple conversation without getting angry at the other person. I see that life has eroded this relationship and literally driven a wedge between them. Instead of blissfully enjoying their final years together and showing love towards one another, there are conversations that end in frustration and angry words and ultimately separation. There is a coldness that exists in the r...