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Those who spend their time looking for the faults in others usually make no time to correct their own. –Art Janak As we journey along the narrow gate, we begin to realize that God wants to do a healing work in us. Our job is to surrender to the work of our Savior. For many years, I focused on other's issues and avoided my own.  I would focus on what was wrong with them, instead of what was wrong with me. I found it too painful to fix myself, so I did the opposite. I've learned this is referred to as being  co-dependent and was a result of being raised in a home affected by alcoholism.  For many years  I received my worth from fixing and trying to control others.  I was only happy when everyone agreed to live the way I wanted them to live, believed like me and acted as I acted.  I had a hard time just accepting people for who they were, and I had a hard time allowing them just to be who they were at that very moment in time and space. Praise God, through recovery work and delive...